I do not wear a bikini under my many veils. Just to make that clear.
I sometimes hear stories of sightings of women who wear hoochie shorts under open abayas. Never seen it though. You know who is telling those stories and it ain’t us. I admit I have seen some bad taste. Knee length skirts and capri pants and killer pointy boots and loads of make-up and even cleavage. Abaya-fied. Mostly at the mall. But I have never actually heard of someone regularly wearing a bikini under her abaya just for the heck of it.
Who makes this shit up?
You know who. Because we are so oppressed, you see stories about how we resist our oppression by showing the front of our hair. Maybe it ain’t that at all. The women who do that are not covering for religious reasons. They are covering for cultural reasons. Or maybe they started covering when they were more gung-ho about everything, but over time they aren’t so into it all anymore and they just don’t care about a few hairs here and there. But they still believe in the basics.
And the bikinis? The veiled flowers are modest but secretly sexy. Waiting to be unwrapped. Or they are huge hypocrites. People just love pointing out others’ hypocracies. Think they are so holy but they are wearing what very few women would dare to wear in public, all underneath. Or maybe it is a form if resistance to authority. See, ha ha ha! You try to control my sexuality from the male gaze, but I ain’t having it! I am gonna flaunt it to spite you! But really, I have never seen or heard of it, the bikini sporting abaya clad woman.
I have never been to Saudi. Or Iran. I can’t talk about or for them places. But I can just say that in my daily life as an authentic Muslim woman living in a Muslim majority country, I really ain’t never seen or heard of no one wearing a bikini to school under her abaya. That is just sensational nonsense.
March 16, 2008 at 10:18 am
As long as you accept the indignity of being subjected to male authority that is totally your choice, you can wear whatever you want.
I suggest though that you first learn about this covering thing from a reliable source, as there actually is no requirement to wear those black sheets contrary to what the so called “religious authorities” are trying to make ignorant muslims think.
March 16, 2008 at 11:21 am
Oh you caught me Turkish citizen. I am a totally acritical victim of Muslim male oppression. Thanks for letting me know. Good for you to tell me how and what to think.
March 16, 2008 at 1:54 pm
I actually saw a girl wearing a miniskirt, fishnets and boots under her open abaya…in Bur Dubai.More than once so it must be some kind of professional uniform
Somehow I don’t think she was a surpressed girl fighting the male oppression but I might be just evil…
March 16, 2008 at 4:19 pm
Hey I also know a girl who wears goth clothes including boots and fishnets under her abaya, she is not mutahajaba, the abaya is totally to conform to local cultural norms. She is just trying to find her place in the world and express how she feels, I guess. Although she gets a lot of stares. Maybe it’s the same girl.
March 16, 2008 at 7:13 pm
I dont know about bikinis but I am guilty of wearing my PJ’s to the mall one too many times under my abaya:)
March 17, 2008 at 11:52 am
Salaam Alaikum,
See if the article had said wearing PJ’s under abaya’s (like ayjay said), then that would be totally true.
However, if you’re wearing a thick, heavy abaya, I don’t see any problem with wearing yr underwear (plus arm covers) underneath it, after all, an abaya is just a big dress and you only wear underwear under a dress.
A bikini would feel really sweaty, so that another reason why I feel this concept is a fetish idea rather than fact.
March 17, 2008 at 3:56 pm
Fatima,
It is just modern Orientalism. Either Muslim women are oppressed by their men or they are uncontrollable hyper-sexual beings.
These stories really say more about the West and their views on sexuality than it does anything about Muslim women.
March 17, 2008 at 5:03 pm
LOL! I used to wear those flowy *indonesian* home dreses, I don’t know what they are called.They are cotton and very cool to wear especially when it’s hot under my abbaya and you wouldn’t see under it just the hem, it was comfortable and I didn’t feel hot! I actually saw some girls smoking at the ladies washroom in Sahara Mall(I think its called that) during eid,lol, it was a sight! Btw, they were not *religious* or anything, just girls being *rebellious* I guess!!!
March 17, 2008 at 7:06 pm
lol, Right. In Iran nobody even wear Abayah. Also there are separated pools and beaches for women. So they freely wear bikini and swim in the sea!
Iranian women being oppressed?! No way!
March 20, 2008 at 1:01 am
Ok…I must admit….I am one of those women wearing pj’s under the abaya……..lol
March 24, 2008 at 11:32 pm
@ luckyfatima, I’m not trying to tell you what to think or what to wear, that is totally your choice. The covering thing mainly comes from Arab tradition, somewhere along the line someone decided to enforce this wahabi tradition on all moslems. If people were not so scared to question things the truth would eventually come out.
March 25, 2008 at 7:24 am
Turkish citizen – covering is not “wahhabi tradition” it existed long time before. Also, it is not only arab tradition (so Wahabi or arab tradition? make up your mind), it existed in different cultures, even european once (oh yes, europeans started wearing miniskirts and vests not so long ago and in some countries women still cover themselves, head included, when going to church). I believe in freedom of choice on BOTH sides. Being forced to uncover your head is as much taking away freedom of expression as being forced to cover it. Key word is “FORCE”.
September 5, 2008 at 12:12 am
Nah, it’s such nonesense!!
In my entire life, I have never seen women with bikinis under their abayas!!
Wanna wear your bikini, put it in your bad and wear it when you reach the pool!! That’s understood to everybody!!